Most of us have hiked to High Falls many times, and probably almost all of us have camped there, at one of the two overnight sites ("High Falls Lower" or "High Falls Upper"). But few of us have hiked along the brook above the falls. I recommend it with great enthusiasm. In fact, if you keep hiking along the brook you will find yourself turning to the northeast and climbing near the western ridge of Doubletop Mountain. Yes, High Falls Brook to the west and Pigeon Brook to the east are the two streams bounding the Frost Valley side of Doubletop. Many FV'ers know that by hiking up Pigeon you can get close to the Doubletop's peaks. Few know that the same is true of High Falls Brook. So try it. It's a difficult climb - goes up steep angles toward the end. And then, depending on the time of year, the brook ends sooner or later at its muddy and swampy and brambly beginning, and then you must (as always on Doubletop) use a compass to go the rest of the way. There are several beautiful little waterfalls above High Falls, and while in aesthetic terms HF Brook is a C+ to Piegon's A+, it is worth doing if only because so few do it.
Friday, August 17, 2007
High Falls
Most of us have hiked to High Falls many times, and probably almost all of us have camped there, at one of the two overnight sites ("High Falls Lower" or "High Falls Upper"). But few of us have hiked along the brook above the falls. I recommend it with great enthusiasm. In fact, if you keep hiking along the brook you will find yourself turning to the northeast and climbing near the western ridge of Doubletop Mountain. Yes, High Falls Brook to the west and Pigeon Brook to the east are the two streams bounding the Frost Valley side of Doubletop. Many FV'ers know that by hiking up Pigeon you can get close to the Doubletop's peaks. Few know that the same is true of High Falls Brook. So try it. It's a difficult climb - goes up steep angles toward the end. And then, depending on the time of year, the brook ends sooner or later at its muddy and swampy and brambly beginning, and then you must (as always on Doubletop) use a compass to go the rest of the way. There are several beautiful little waterfalls above High Falls, and while in aesthetic terms HF Brook is a C+ to Piegon's A+, it is worth doing if only because so few do it.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
November moonrise
total eclipse of the moon, August 16, 1989
Karin Turer, intrigued by my "this very day" approach, remembers a significant Frost Valley event on this very day in 1989. Here is her wonderful memory of it:On this day way back in 1989 was a total eclipse of the moon, at camp! I guess it was 4th session, and I knew about the eclipse ahead of time and was wondering if I'd get the chance to see it. Lucky for me, it became an actual Evening Activity for that night. We all got our sleeping bags or blankets and the whole Hird (maybe it was the whole camp) went out to Big Tree Field and watched the moon. I think it was extra special because we were out "late" - in any case, it felt late, and it was great because it was essentially a big long "hang-out" time. They gave out snacks and I remember throwing them at each other. It was one of those years where those of us in Sacky had the brother cabin that was maybe 2 years younger. The Windsong girls were annoyed because some of Sacky was hanging out with Pac that session. Whenever I hear stories about seeing the 1969 moon landing while at camp (which is frankly more dramatic and exciting) I always think of this event. Not too dramatic and exciting, but one of the nicest things about camp was laying out in Big Tree after dark.
Lake Wawayanda in 1876
Lake Wawayanda in the northwest corner of New Jersey was the site of the original Camp Wawayanda beginning in 1901. Here is the same lake as it was depicted in a painting by Jasper Francis Cropsey done in 1876. Several people who know the lake suggest that the painting is highly romanticized - painted by Cropsey to befit the dramatic natural aesthetic of the mid-19th century Hudson River School. Notice for instance how high and looming the mountains are in the background here; well, the actual scene has no peaks quite so dramatic. Perhaps there's a convergence here: the Hudson River School painters focused many of their landscape paintings on the Catskill Mountains - dramatic scenes yet rounded "soft" mountains, that blue-green mountain-forest color we all know and love so well. What I like, then, is that the Catskills aesthetic trained its eye on Lake Wawayanda, conceptually tying together this New Jersey site to its future in the mountains to the north.
mini 90s reunion
A mini-reunion of some wonderful 1990s folks took place in September 2005, organized by Rick Mckay. Top row, Will Edwards, Colleen Wenke Apollo, Eric Goldman, Mike Swabb; middle row, Rick McKay, Janine Delgriorno, Michelle Louis, Havi Ashe, Dana Archer-Rosenthal, Lauren Ocasio; bottom row, Jessica Kaskel, Beth Schwartzapfel
Joy's women
Friends gather at the Labor Day 2001 reunion: top from left, Shirley Kay, Barb Hale; front from left, Mary Ann Fisher, Sue Moriarty, Leslie Black, Liz White Russell, Michelle Palamidy. Liz is the daughter of Chuck and the late Joy White. Barb and her sister Cathy were campers and became counselors in the 60s and early 70s; the Westfield Hales were Wawayanda mainstays. Shirley Kay rose through the ranks and succeeded Bud Cox as our Adventure Camp director and for several years worked full-time for Frost Valley, mostly out of the Montclair NJ office. Shirley met Norm Gurfinkel at camp (Norm was a CIT with me in '71) and later they married and now reside blissfully in Seattle. Sue Moriarity had and has a gorgeous high reed-thin
voice, somewhat like Joni Mitchell's in the early days. Years ago bliss for me was gathering on a winter Sunday afternoon or around an end-of-summer campfire or in the Whites' living room: listening to Sue sing songs such as Bonnie Raitt's "Guilty" or "Thirsty Boots." Leslie Black grew up at camp (I knew her from the time we were campers and then CITs together), found a niche at the horsebarn, directed the riding program for several summers, met her husband at camp and married there (her son Jake, who just graduated from West Point, was born at FV), helped me and Jody Davies Ketcham found the Alumni Association, left for a position as a social worker, and eventually returned to direct the Straus Center for several years. No one's love for Frost Valley has ever exceeded Leslie's. Mary Ann Fisher's sister Kris was a counselor and then trip leader, as was Mary Ann. She is now based in DC. The amazing Michelle Palamidy I have described earlier. These strong inventive dedicated women had a number of qualities and affections in common, but perhaps the strongest bond was their love of Liz's mom Joy White. Joy was their camp mom, their convener and confessor, their instigator, and always and ever their supplier of bottomless quantities of TLC.
just above, from left to right: Leslie Black, June Kaiser, Liz White, on the third floor of the Castle, one December in the mid-70s
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
need your staff lists
We have copies of summer staff lists for most of the years from 1958 through the 90s. Below is a list of the years for which we do not have staff lists. Readers of this blog are urged to look through their attics and old camp files for staff lists from these years. If you find any, please photocopy them (or scan them) and send them to me. Email me at afilreis [at] writing.upenn.edu and I'll give you my mailing address.
1959
1960
1989
1990
1991
1992
1993
1994
1997
1999
2000
2001
2002
2004
2005
We are in the process of entering everyone's name into FV's master database. Many former staff are already in the system, but some are not. Of course we don't have accurate addresses for most of the folks whose names we find on old staff lists, but creating a database entry is a start.
1959
1960
1989
1990
1991
1992
1993
1994
1997
1999
2000
2001
2002
2004
2005
We are in the process of entering everyone's name into FV's master database. Many former staff are already in the system, but some are not. Of course we don't have accurate addresses for most of the folks whose names we find on old staff lists, but creating a database entry is a start.
Milton's emotional return
I mentioned earlier that Milton Pittman (camper & staff, 1982-1990) visited camp this past weekend. On Sunday during check-in for session 4, Milt, wearing one of our bright yellow alumni volunteer shirts, stationed himself near the entrance to the dining hall and offered kindly welcoming words to parents and arriving campers, directed them to the check-in tables and did his winning jokin' thing. I watched this with amazement and nostalgia, recalling Milt's magnetic sociability and his great deep warm voice. Earlier during the holdover weekend we'd had a chance to go to Phoenicia for dinner--and got caught up on the long years. Sunday morning Bill Abbott insisted that we have our early-morning coffee at the observatory--way up the hill near where (for oldtimers reading this) the old rifle range used to be. It was a gorgeous morning--warm and sunny--and we had an amazing view of the sun coming up over Wildcat. Later I chatted with Milt and here is the audio recording, complete with two classic Milt-UN tales. One story has to do with his time as bus coordinator, the other about his very first interaction with me in '82 when he was a camper called up to perform as Challenge Night.
It was clearly a great weekend for Milt and here is part of what he wrote me when he got back home (he begins by referring to my daughter Hannah, my all-summer Sacky camper, who, on break between sessions, joined us for various holdover-weekend activities):
It was a pleasure to meet her, and seeing you around her, I can tell that you are a really proud man. When I bought her ice cream Saturday.. I was saying to myself, Wow! I cannot believe I just bought Al’s kid ice cream.. I’m still beaming about that. I also have to tell you that volunteering at FV made me feel fantastic… It totally rekindled the old FV fire that I new was somewhere inside me. After all of the years being away from FV, I am glad that the fire has been restarted.. Especially thanks to you and brotha B[ill Abbott]. I’m going to try and get the word out to alumni that I am in touch with. If any one is on the fence about volunteering, don’t even think about it just come up and DO IT! You will feel GREAT about yourself, and the fact that you are up at the VALLEY again. The kids, the sounds, and the whole atmosphere up there will rejuvenate you, and make you feel ten years younger. I will not be a stranger, and thanks again for welcoming me back to the home I call Frost Valley…Here's to Milt's return!
Hirdstock 2006
Last summer I put together a quickie web page featuring photos from Hirdstock 2006. The response to this was so positive that I added some photos that others sent me from a few earlier Hirdstocks.
we are the world
Well, we really are the world. The number of international counselors and program staff at FV has, in some years, peaked at 30 and each year their origins range extraordinarily. The impact this has on NY/NJ metro area kids is incalculable: they meet and learn to love adults from Asia and Africa and Australia. In the lead-up to Hirdstock one year--1985--the internationals and I (and a few other Yanks) learned to sing "We Are the World," a song written that year by Michael Jackson and Lionel Ritchie and produced by Quincy Jones and recorded by a supergroup of popular musicians to draw attention to famine and drought in Africa. We sang it in at least four-part harmony and got quite good at it. On a day off between sessions 2 and 3 we took a crowd of staff to Manhattan and actually performed this song in Washington Square and on various subway platforms. No kidding. Here's the photo of that memorable Hirdstock performance. In white shirts, four over from the left, are Dimitris and Aliki from Greece. In the blue V-neck staff shirt is John Giannotti. The short girl to John's right is Avra Jordano. Moving from Avra's right: Carolyn Doris, Vicki Lewis (Australia), Cathy Hogan (Australia).
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
welcome to Frost Valley
Karen Rauter is our relatively new marketing director at camp. She's a long-time resident of the Margaretville area and just loves the Catskills in every way. And can Karen write! She writes like an angel and I can hardly say how important this is to me. People who visit the valley fall head over heels for it, but if you're not there you need words and pictures to tell the story--and words are more central to conveying the experience than one might think. Karen has written the text for a new general conference brochure and here's a sneak preview of the introductory prose, which is very fine:Frost Valley is a place where good things happen when people pay attention to each other. There’s endless beauty here - the high meadows, blankets of evergreens, and pristine brook trails – and you can meet nature in all its forms. But more than that, it’s a place where our ties to friends and family are strengthened. When a community of people came to the Catskills to build Frost Valley, they had in mind a place where you can sit next to someone you think you know, and then really get to know them. It also happens to be where the everyday light and shadow is enough to inspire artists; where American fly-fishing was born; and where today, a quarter million acres of green forests still remain “forever wild.” At Frost Valley, where we are does have an effect on how we treat each other. Here, a family can relearn what “family style” means as they share a meal together. The rose-gray river stones in the hearths and chimneys around camp reflect the colors of nearby Biscuit Creek and pull you into the surroundings. If you need more reasons why it’s so special here, we encourage you to explore citizen science activities during every season. But you don’t have to, because you might have more fun just learning silly camp songs. And by the end of your stay, when you your family and newly found friends are composting like pros together, everyone becomes richer, including next year’s butterfly garden.
Monday, August 13, 2007
Hirdstock
And here (just above) is a photo of the aforementioned Stuart Kaufer. This photo was taken during a day off, when Stu and Mike McNamee and a few others hiked up to Giant Ledge.
Hessie!
Sue Whirty, Ellen Hart, John Mumford

staff photo 2000
Here's the summer staff photo for the year 2000. Were the staff shirts that summer really black? If so: cool. (But I don't recall this. Maybe they were blue and the photo is bad.) Fourth from the right in the first row is Matt Buzcek. Fifth from the left, with bandana, rising in enthusiasm, is Joe Elliott. Soon Matt would become our Director of Camping Services, succeeding Sue Goldberg. And Joe would eventually join the full-year FV and serve as Program Director in the summer.
ache
I've gotten an overwhelming response to this blog - to the blog as it is but also to the very idea of it. This morning this awaited me in my inbox:The blog is awesome - I just went back through the whole thing again. I'll say this without shame - I ache for Frost Valley. I spend a lot of time and cerebral metabolism trying to devise a way I can get back up there for a session....And "ache" befits the other responses. Occasionally I stop to think of what else (other than an individual person) is that for which I feel such longing. Once every so often, I want to re-read a book that badly. At the end of the baseball season, maybe Shea: a playoff ticket down in the boxes. But otherwise it's only this. And you?
And if I could transport myself not just back to this place, but to a certain moment in my personal history here, it would perhaps be:
end of lunch on any July day in 1968, and Dave King (our camp director) walks to the center of the dining hall, without microphone, and without introduction of any kind begins to lead one of the 25 or so camp songs we sang in those days. He is the maestro, waving one arm to the rhythm we are to follow and with the other arm, at turns, directing us to sing quietly or loudly or pointing toward some one camper who isn't singing or (rarely) is talking. And it's "Young Folks Old Folks" or "Zum Gali Gali" or "Deep and Wide" and I look down to the end of the table at my counselor and he's singing too, no hesitation, not too old for this, totally entranced and I myself turn my gaze back toward Dave....Okay, I ache for that. Not being young again, not quite. More like being momentarily again part of such harmony.
In response to the above, someone wrote me the following: "Your time was a little before mine, and what you describe is certainly magic. If only there were video at the time of Dave King's reign, but I'm sure video would never have done that "feeling" justice. My memories are most vivid from my earlier years there, the mid to late 80s. A lot of what I remember involves you and Rick in the Girls' Dining Hall, and by '87, the new Dining Hall. The way you describe Dave King? That's a lot how I remember you and Rick. You held court."
Sunday, August 12, 2007
visits
These are some of the people who visited here to volunteer or dropped off kids this weekend (holdover between 3 and 4; beginning of 4th session):Laurie Elias (now Laurie Bruno), 1979-80s
Milton Pittman, 1982-90
Bill Abbott
Sue Ettelman (now Sue Eisenhauer)
Bob Whirty
Debbie Floyd (now Debbie Moree), 1985-90
John Wellington
Carole Wellington
Andy Wiener
Anne Marie Kremer
Hope Simons (now Hope Colton -- see photo above of Hope with Lisa and Eric)
Gay Filippone
Lisa Miller, '69 - '76 (incl. at least 4 yrs on staff)
As Hope Simons and John Wellington and I stood in the dining hall, along with their kids and one of mine, we realized that when Hope and John were CITs in 1976, I was their CIT Director. And our kids now: 1 VC, 1 program staff, 2 CITs. Weird.





shooting stars every year on this night
Tonight--the first night of session 4 2007--happens to be the peak night for viewing the annual Perseid Meteor Shower. It's an August FV ritual--watching for shooting stars on this night every summer. This year it happens to be a perfect night. The clouds you see here above have already passed (see at center below for a more current view!) and the first stars and one planet are already visible. At midnight--after telling stories to Forest and then Tacoma and giving a devotion of sorts to CITs--I intend to find the best CQ fire for viewing shooting stars (Forest, hands down) and will sit there as late as I can stay awake to enjoy the celestial show. I live in Philadelphia. Were I there tonight, I wouldn't be able to see the stars but for the city lights, let alone the meteors. Another good reason to be here here here.
Smith Lodge to the right, emergency vehicle** parked out front, Banks Hill in the center. [**It got some use this night: one counselor twisted an ankle stepping into Lake Cole at CIT Point during the opening campfire; a camper hit his head on a bunk while falling out of it.]
bittersweet reunion
This is the time of year when, typically, messages sent through this listserv anticipate the joy of the coming summer, a season when Frost Valley is especially noisy with euphoric voices, and when many of us most happily remember our own times there. But in the rhythm of our extended community there are also very sad seasons, and this seems to be one of those. It's with great, great sorrow that I report the death of Oran Giannotti. Most
on this list will remember messages sent this winter, describing the cancer of the esophagus Oran was fighting. A number of Frost Valley friends of the Giannottis joined a Super Bowl ("Oran Bowl") fund-raiser to help Oran's family deal with the unbelievable costs of the treatment. Radiation successfully reduced the tumor; then surgery successfully removed the cancer; but very recently Oran suffered from what turned out to be major damage done to his lungs by the radiation. During his second visit to the ICU this weekend, Oran succumbed, with his family, his sisters Keara and Dani, his father John and stepmom Toni and mom Karen, his wife Dara, near him. Oran literally grew up at Frost Valley. When the Giannottis first came to camp in the crazy summer of 1969, Oran was in tow, a little kid. Later he played in summer camp and eventually became a counselor. I remember him best as a novice counselor in Hemlock Village in 1984 or so--not perhaps the most organized of counselors but always extraordinarily creative in dealing with his boys' problems and complexities, and always astonishingly sensitive. He was just as creative as his father, John--utterly brilliant at, for example, solving homesickness with whacky but 100% effective methods. Oran's many dear Frost Valley friends are on this list. So are those who knew John and Karen Giannotti from earlier years and who might remember Oran as a small child. And so are many who didn't know the Giannottis but have heard
the Giannotti legend, and legend it is. A Frost Valley family more devoted to camp there never was.
the amazing Dave
The photo above was taken at Hirdstock in 1984 or so. Dave's giving me that mock-stern look. He was really rather relaxed that sunny day. As we sang Give Peace a Chance ("all we are say...ing - is GIVE peace a chance..."), and Dave sang too, I knew again that at Frost Valley there were no serious left-right distinctions. Finally we wanted the same things and Dave embodied them: let's be good to kids, let's have high expectations of and for them, let's take care of them as if they were our own, and let's see what it's like to live peacefully. Hirdstock as an all-camp program never quite worked perfectly but it always reminded us of these things. Dave Allen the Peacenik...symbolized it so well.
generous Ettelmans
As many reading this blog will know, Frost Valley is nearing the end of a major capital campaign, raising funds (a larger goal than ever) to renovate the old Girls' Dining Hall, build a new lodge immediately to its west (more or less where Ricciardi Cabin used to stand), and build an entirely new Wellness Center complex on the hill in front of the dining hall and just above the laundry, Brown Pavilion and hardcourts. Many alumni and alumni families have helped by making contributions. I'm sure at some point I'll have a chance to acknowledge them in separate entries, but today, with the Ettelmans returning as volunteers, I'm thinking especially of their generosity. Their donation made possible the beautiful new kitchen in Geyer Hall (formerly Conover English Hall--the aforementioned old Girls' DH). During the dedication of Geyer Hall back in April I took some pictures of the kitchen with its new sign honoring the Ettelmans, but they didn't come out. Above is a shot of the family taken just outside Geyer during the outdoor part of the April '07 dedication.
I wouldn't be a good Trustee if I didn't add: if anyone reading this wants to be part of the campaign, please write me at afilreis [at] writing.upenn.edu or click on the little envelope icon below this or any entry. Alumni are entirely funding the main "Alumni Reception Room" in the new health center and to the "Joy White Nurse's Office," a comfy & spacious space for the nurse that we're building in memory of the utterly remarkable woman whom so many of us loved as a second mom and who served FV with great heart and soul as nurse for 18 years from 1973 until 1991
Saturday, August 11, 2007
"care enough to take care of this place"
This afternoon (still Saturday between sessions 3 and 4--totally quiet) we wandered into one of the Tacoma cabins...Bodman #1. Pretty well clean. Floors swept, bathrooms not so bad, windows open to let in the fresh breeze. More or less ready for the new campers to arrive tomorrow. All of the girls in Bodman 1 left after 3, so it'll be a whole new crew for the counselors there. We saw on a table that serves as a writing desk a stack of magazines, a journal-notebook, a baseball glove, and a small neat stack of (contraband) candy...and a note, folded in half on green stationery. We opened it and read as follows:Dear Bodman One, We have been at Frost Valley for six weeks, some of us. Frost Valley is a magic place. A place to release our emotions and enjoy the summer sun. We have lived in these rooms for two weeks, and we took care of them. We didn't curse, because we wanted to keep Frost Valley the sacred place that it is. We hope you love it here as much as we do, and that you care enough to take care of this place. Look out for our counselors, Emily & Jesse, and for Little Big Tree.* Thanks, and have a wonderful session. - Bodman One of Session Three**It's a gift from one group of 14-year-olds to another, and probably none of them will ever meet, or maybe years from now by accident in casual convo about their Tacoma summer. What's especially good about this for me is that it proves that continuity isn't just something that is passed along from year to year by people who stay here for years--but can be generously given from one session to the next. One of the eight Frost Valley core values*** is stewardship, and it is probably (at least judging from the little talks about these values one hears as flag raising) the least well understood. Yet what could be a better instance of stewardship than a group of American teenagers in 2007 asking another group to "care enough to take care of this place." Yes, that's it. And it surely bodes well for our future, all of us.
* At the beginning of this summer, on the final night of staff training week, the entire staff planted a sapling about 100 feet to the east of the famous Big Tree in Big Tree Field. Don't worry: Big Tree is healthy and has many more years to go. But the staff felt that stewardship was all about preparing for the future (the cliche word is "proactive"). So they dedicated what they call "Little Big Tree" and now the little guy stands next to the big guy and it too bodes well for the future.
** The writer of the note was Sami (see pic below) but it was composed by the whole group of girls.
*** The 8 core values are respect, responsibility, caring, community, diversity, stewardship, inclusiveness, honesty.
families within the family
I've tried not to make this blog what most blogs are - a personal diary. I hope it is more the long story of a generationally interlaced, complex human community, a community that shares a place, an implicit set of values, a part-historical and part-legendary history, and an actual network of relationships (many of them not-quite-known to the relators) in common. But how can I help it if every so often my lens on this place focuses on my literal family instead of the larger view of my Frost Valley family? Hannah and I were walking back to the Castle from a late-night Holdover Weekend campfire last night and I said something about what real happiness I felt at seeing how fully connected she and her brother were to this beloved community that meant so much to me--that their own connections were by now so strong that they didn't need me to sustain them. Then we talked about the people who joined us at our little impromptu campfire: Bud Cox (here since 1954), Mark Gottdenker (here since 1979), Eric Blum (here since '86), and me...147 years of Frost Valley/Wawayanda camping...and how Wawayanda at FV will be 50 years old next year (1958-2008). "Fifty years," Hannah mused as we walked flashlightless (as always) in the dark. (By now we were holding hands.) "Fifty years." And then she began talking about what she would be doing and feeling here fifty years from now. In her mind she'd already sprung forward to a time when she would be looking back. We walked by Reflection Pond. We walked up the thin road to the Castle, entered, turned lights off in the living room, went up to room 26, and wordlessly prepared for bed. Hannah has been in camp for six weeks and has another two to go, and this was a night she could sleep as long as she wanted (and in "a real bed"), and she relished it. A break before another sprint toward the end of the summer of her life.
Camp was quiet last night. There are perhaps 25 campers "holding over" between sessions 3 and 4. Almost all the staff are taking their days off. It had rained all day so people who were still around were mostly indoors anyway. The CITs (including my niece Danielle) had watched a movie and had their snack of ice cream, and were now banging around the hardcourts under the lights (but not as noisily as they might have been). Bud and Hannah and I drove down to the woodshed and picked out some dry kindling and maybe a dozen logs, delivered them to Forest village's CQ fire, and at 9:30 pm our little troupe gathered, built up a roaring fire, made s'mores (Hannah managed to bake the graham crackers and melt the chocolate next to the fire while roasting her mellows over it), and began swapping stories. I learned from Mark Gottdenker, in detail, his years here starting in '79, and, with Eric joining to tell about the late 80s and early 90s, was able to stitch together the pieces of that part of the puzzle I knew least well. Three international counselors joined us for a while, staring into the fire, eating s'mores, and listening with some wonder (if not also a measure of boredom) at all this talk of people (unknown people yet in familiar roles--doing specifically unknown things in generally familiar ways) from 20 and 30 years ago. Then these 3 women rose and told us they had to get to bed. Why? Because at 3 AM they were getting up in order to hike up Giant Ledge and catch the sun rise. "Okay," I thought, "but it's very wet and, although the rain had stopped during the time of our campfire, surely it's going to rain some more overnight." Well as I write this it's 7:45 am: the sky has cleared, it's a gorgeous day already, cold but beautiful, and those three were right to plan such a crazy adventure. They're tired themselves after 3 sessions and ought to sleep during the holdover weekend. But no.
Yesterday afternoon, as the staff began leaving for their days' off, we passed a car on its way out and they stopped to say hello. The two passengers were Eric and Lisa Colton (Lisa is shown above), twins who have been coming to camp here for years. Eric is a program staffer this summer and Lisa is the VC of Susky. Their mom, as I have probably mentioned elsewhere, is Hope. She was here as a camper during my time as camp director and her name then was Hope Simons. Eric and Lisa mentioned that Hope would be driving them back to camp on Sunday for the start of session 4. I'll be here and will have my camera ready to try and catch a photo of them much like the one at the very top of this entry. It will convey much the same story too.
Camp was quiet last night. There are perhaps 25 campers "holding over" between sessions 3 and 4. Almost all the staff are taking their days off. It had rained all day so people who were still around were mostly indoors anyway. The CITs (including my niece Danielle) had watched a movie and had their snack of ice cream, and were now banging around the hardcourts under the lights (but not as noisily as they might have been). Bud and Hannah and I drove down to the woodshed and picked out some dry kindling and maybe a dozen logs, delivered them to Forest village's CQ fire, and at 9:30 pm our little troupe gathered, built up a roaring fire, made s'mores (Hannah managed to bake the graham crackers and melt the chocolate next to the fire while roasting her mellows over it), and began swapping stories. I learned from Mark Gottdenker, in detail, his years here starting in '79, and, with Eric joining to tell about the late 80s and early 90s, was able to stitch together the pieces of that part of the puzzle I knew least well. Three international counselors joined us for a while, staring into the fire, eating s'mores, and listening with some wonder (if not also a measure of boredom) at all this talk of people (unknown people yet in familiar roles--doing specifically unknown things in generally familiar ways) from 20 and 30 years ago. Then these 3 women rose and told us they had to get to bed. Why? Because at 3 AM they were getting up in order to hike up Giant Ledge and catch the sun rise. "Okay," I thought, "but it's very wet and, although the rain had stopped during the time of our campfire, surely it's going to rain some more overnight." Well as I write this it's 7:45 am: the sky has cleared, it's a gorgeous day already, cold but beautiful, and those three were right to plan such a crazy adventure. They're tired themselves after 3 sessions and ought to sleep during the holdover weekend. But no.
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
can't help but wonder where I'm bound
Don't you love Bud's Bob Dylan sunglasses? I always did. And I can hear him singing, as we hiked, "Ah, but I was so much older then, I'm younger than that now...." Wish it were true.
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Tom Ashbaugh surfaces after only 40 years
My Outpost counselor in '67 was a lanky, blonde, kind guy named Tom Ashbaugh. Since helping to found the FV alumni association in the late 80s, I've made efforts to locate Tom and get back in touch. But no luck ever. I had given up when a small-world story told itself as follows: We use a company named BlackBaud for our databases and apparently the corporate folks at BlackBaud like to talk about us as one of their model customers. At such a meeting, after Frost Valley was mentioned, one of the managers got a big smile on his face, and said, "Well, I know Frost Valley. I was a camper and counselor there." Of course it was Tom Ashbaugh. I got a message from the other manager who was delighted by this and urged me to write Tom. I did and we have been exchanging elated nostalgic messages for the last 24 hours. Tom will dig up some pictures and remember a few good times, but that's for another entry. Meantime, here's what he's told me so far (I knew none of this):
Well, it's only been exactly forty years since this Westfield guy Tom--this smart easy-going adult, this easy mentor, this man whom I wanted to be--was my Wawayanda counselor. Four decades. Eight half-decades. Four times the age of today's Forest kid. Oh, Wawayanda has been in New York State for nearly 50 years and for 40 of them Tom hasn't been there. Tom, Tom, where have you been? Come back soon.
I was part of the Westfield crowd. My brother Bob first attended camp in the 50's in NJ and my first year was a special "trial" for kids thinking about camp but either too young (my case) or not ready to commit to 2 or 4 weeks. We went (I think) after summer sessions were over for three or four days and I was hooked. I went the next few summers for 4 weeks, then spent a number of summers attending Camp Dudley in NY and returned to Wawayanda in 1967 as cabin counselor. Kathy Ketcham was in my class at Westfield and Mike is her older brother. I had forgotten how involved the whole family was.I'm insane about memory, but I can recall the entire staff of Outpost '67: cabin 11--Roger Pollard; cabin 12--Tony Selese, the village chief (Ai, yi yi yi, greasy Salese [please forgive the slur against Italians in that ditty, but I didn't make it up]); cabin 13--Bill Kingston (who actually kept a machete in this cabin); cabin 14--the aforementioned sweet Tom Ashbaugh, called by Dave King "Big Daddy Warbucks Ashbaugh"; cabin 15--Chris Schmidt, camp's Rifle Range director and a fellow who truly scared me for some reason. "Bill [Kingston] was a good friend," Tom wrote me, "at Wawayanda and back in Westfield. I remember Bill and I tried to revive the camp to sing a very long and uninspired version of John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt. We had sung it when we were campers and when we returned as counselors, it didn't seem to be on the list of songs that were regularly sung. We bombed, our voices were certainly not pure - but we didn't care. It's not like we were going to get fired!"
Well, it's only been exactly forty years since this Westfield guy Tom--this smart easy-going adult, this easy mentor, this man whom I wanted to be--was my Wawayanda counselor. Four decades. Eight half-decades. Four times the age of today's Forest kid. Oh, Wawayanda has been in New York State for nearly 50 years and for 40 of them Tom hasn't been there. Tom, Tom, where have you been? Come back soon.
golf at camp?
The photo was taken in the Day Room of the dining hall during a Session 2 lunch, July 1999.
social levelling
Goldrush Day (mentioned earlier) was momentarily a Topsy Turvy Day, Frost Valley's Feast of Fools. Each summer, during the goldrush carnival on this afternoon, there were two events where the high became low and "the people" ran amuck: Dunk Bozo and The Stocks. The latter was sometimes called "Ye Olde Stocks." Some village chief or, best of all, director was grabbed and put inside the Dunk Bozo cage, whereupon campers and counselor tried to knock the bucket of cold Biscuit Creek water on their heads (by knocking a wooden arm on a hinge so that it swung back and knocked the bucket over). As for The Stocks: they were set up in the middle of the Olympic Circle, and we sought the highest FV authority we could find. Halbe Brown, typically in his office making fund-raising phone calls or meeting with someone about a potential grant or new project, willingly submitted to this. He was brought out and clapped into the stocks and remained there for an hour or more as folks came by and gleefully imagined all manner of rules (his own rules!) he might have transgressed. Camp was the one place we knew where social levelling was actually possible - and not just possible but hilariously positive. And while on the other days it wasn't a gimmick or carnival booth, there was a palpable sense of common purpose, and the common touches our leaders used to achieve it, the long impromptu conversation sitting in the field during a staff soccer game, a visit to CQ just to talk about...well, everything, the surprising moments in which one was brought into complete confidence about some large direction in which we were going (a renal program next year, a new idea to bring indigent kids to camp, and maybe we should open up a special all-year school for the kids who have no home to go home to...). Hierarchy was real enough here, but it never seemed merely to enforce difference. Idealism evens things out. We were the same; it's just that some were older and more experienced...but finally no wiser than we were or could become. We felt we could make the change, together, on the level.Halbe's favorite poem, which he recited for us many times, began this way:
I'd rather see a sermon
than hear one, any day.
Monday, August 6, 2007
where are you now, Frank Goetz?
Earlier I wrote about our pal Frank Goetz who was a counselor in the early and mid-80s from Switzerland. Here's what happened to Frank after his FV time, in Frank's own words:After doing the mandatory 17-week boot camp in the Swiss army, I took a double major in Philosophy & German Literature at the University of Basle and finished my studies in 1991 with a MA in Philosophy. My first job took me to Berlin where for 4 years I was part of an international research project, editing the works & notebooks of Friedrich Nietzsche, a 19th century German philosopher. My contribution to that project was supposed to be my PhD, but the work in the archives left me so estranged from everyday life that I decided to leave the academic world altogether. I returned to Switzerland in 1995 and worked as a freelance journalist for several years, only to find that writing book & movie reviews on a daily basis wasn?t making me happy either. I wanted to be closer to people, and the memories of the summers in FV and of the countless ski camps I had worked in during my university years led me to what I am doing today ? working with kids & teenagers as a crisis counselor. Yep, I'm a social worker now, and last summer I married a girl I met 8 years ago. We spent our honeymoon exploring the American Southwest and loved every minute of it. What a beautiful country that is!I remember many wonderful things about Frank, but here's one trivial yet nonetheless interesting note: Frank spent a bunch of years (as a kid?) living in Short Hills, NJ, and spoke English not just fluently but with a perfect suburban New Jersey accent. It got to the point that the campers from Joisey refused to believe he was an international, even when he was the coach of Switzerland during the Olympics. What made matters still more confusing: he became a dear friend of Carolyn Doris, who was from...Short Hills.
Eric Blum's week at camp
See this link for Eric's summary of his month at camp in 2009. As I mentioned in an earlier entry, Eric Blum waits all year so that he can consume his entire annual vacation (and then some) to come to work at Frost Valley. He does get paid but donates every dollar of his salary to camp as a contribution. His position is known informally as "camp schlep." He will do anything to help, high- or low-level stuff. He is always there to drive. (This is something along the lines of what Sandy Shapiro Bohn does during the first half of the summer.) Eric is medically trained and is a terrific back-up during various crises, which unfortunately do occur at camp. And, what's more, he is a miracle in himself, as he's on dialysis and has been for years (and presumably came to FV first because of our program for people with renal disease). Here is an excerpt of the recent update from camp I received (the rest can be read here):
I am completing my first week of 4 up here and I couldn't be happier as I am sure my colleauges are at my "real job" are very happy to have a respite from having to hear such camp classics as "Baby Duck" and "Here at Wawayanda" being sung throughout the corridors of the O.R. where I work, and seem to increase in frequency and loudness the closer I get to making my annual trip.... [On] Tuesday and Wednesday I lifeguarded for a couple villages and just helped out. While I was lifeguarding for a Tacoma cabin I witnessed the FV magic: one camper, who I later found out couldn't swim, was really tentative about getting in the water; as she saw her cabinmates having such a great time she began inching closer to the water. With a lot of encouragement from her cabin she finally "took the plunge" and got into the water to just above her knees. If you could have seen the look on her face: it was priceless. Her bunk cheered her on and as we were leaving she promised that next time she'd be getting on one of the tubes. What a huge accompishiment for this child.... Friday evening I found myself out at Mongaup pond to meet up with the CIT's. Their leaders Gail Morris and Nick Dalrymple had askied if I would come out and just talk about my experiences at camp and to give them a little pep talk. Even though these 12 CIT's were cold, tired, dirty, and wet, they represented our organization in a way that made me proud. I assured them that they are our present and future. The ranger paid them the greatest compliment I think some one can give a group like this: even though they were the largest group, they were the best behaved. As I was leaving they were singing my most favorite camp song "Daddy won't you take back to Old Wawayanda" (one of the CIT's mentioned that her uncle had help to pen the FV version).... Through this enitre week I have again witnessed the magic of Frost VAlley", and it only reenforces why I return each year, even if my colleauges at work can't understand why I spend my vacation working here-maybe this year I will learn a new song to sing (even louder) throughout the corridors of UVa's operating room. The moon is rising over wildcat and camp is settling down for the evening. And as the song says: "Wawayanda spirit never did die". Smile that WAWAYANDA SMILE.
care continued, pardon, rest (with the commas)
As I was posting the photo from the early 90s in the previous entry, I noticed the grace board at the top of the shot. In 1999 the Windsong girls created three new grace boards; indeed, at the end of each sung grace, the campers and staff took to chanting, "Windsong '99!" Even those graces have been replaced (the boards, not the words--the words are the same as ever). But for many years all three graces were woven into a single home-made tapestry. The year (you can barely see it in this photo) was 1975 and the artist signed her name as initials in the bottom right corner: "DLZ" - Donna Zelaney (who was a staff member at Arts & Crafts and sister of Beth who was, I believe, at the waterfront). Donna's piece served as the grace board in the Girls' Dining Hall until the new main dining hall was completed in '86, whereupon it was moved over and was used until it frayed 24 years later and Windsong's artistry took over.By the way, the current grace boards make a mash of the final line of the dinner grace.
Tireless guardian of our way
Though has kept us well this day.**
While we thank thee we request,
Care continued, pardon, rest.
The final line is now rendered as:
care continued pardon rest
--which of course doesn't make any sense. Yes, the old Wawayanda graces are tortured syntax, made long ago to fit the meter and rhyme without much regard for easy understanding (such as ballads--and these graces are of course ballads). The final two lines mean: We're thanking You and while we're thanking you we might as well also make some requests. Please give us continued care, please also give us pardon (or: please pardon us), and please (since it's evening now) give us some rest. The phrase "care continued" is another way of saying "continued or ongoing care." Otherwise the final line is a list of three items: care, pardon, rest. Without the commas it means nothing. Maybe Wingsong '08 will get it together and make a new one, restoring the commas. Not to carp, but...maybe we can also return to quietly sung grace too! There's nothing quiet as easeful, especially at dinner after a long day of running around.
** Back in the day, the girls sang "today" and the boys sang "this day."
magical snaps on the last day of camp
Jeff Daly, who's got his own deep reservoir of Frost Valley magic, found a photo from the early 1990s and tells us this about it:There is something magical about the last day of camp. Hundreds of photos are taken on that day. Whether it's a cabin photo, pictures of your counselors, or that random hodge-podge of a sampling of campers that gather in front of the dining hall moments before they part ways.... A simple click of the camera and we have that memory forever. This photo has quite a number of characters that graced Frost Valley through the 1990's and beyond. Kate Landis (far left) and Jeff Daly (in front) were two staff. Campers include Caroline Donohue (wearing the sunflower shirt), Dana Archer-Rosenthal, Jessica Kaskel, Mike Young, Lenny Soberman, and Kenny Black.
Saturday, August 4, 2007
playing hookey from swimming lessons
When I was a camper in Lenape in '68, I met an Outpost kid named Steve Breitenfeld and we instantly hit it off. And we were together at camp for the next ten years. As it happened we were assigned together to the Olympic team from Egypt, which in those days of Nasser was called "the United Arab Republic" or "UAR." ("You'll go far / with the U A R!" we shouted hoarsely throughout; we came in dead last.) Steve's last summer was '75 as a Lenape counselor. Somehow - even though we were in different villages - we managed fairly regularly to play hookey from Waterfront period. We would meet in the long thin grove of trees separating the Big Tree Field from what was then called "the Flagpole Field" (currently Margetts Field--there were no hardcourts and the row of trees was denser than now and of course there was no road running up to the dining hall there). We had constructed a home-made checker/chess board at Arts & Crafts and we hid it somewhere in the woods. We used stones for pieces. And we'd spend a blissful activity period playing chess and talking. The other day I remembered all this and had to urge to contact Steve again. Here was part of his reply:
It was wonderful receiving your note, Al. It is great you found me in the cabin list from 1968; if I recall cabin 13. Hard to believe I started at camp in 1966 in Totem, cabin 3 with Jim Ross, and ended in 1975 counseling in Lenape. I often remember running around a bit wild with you - hiding in the woods between the Rec. Hall field and big tree field - playing chess with our camp-made chess set. I don't know if you remember that, too. There are so many memories sometimes it is hard to keep them all straight. It was a long time ago, but I have many fond memories of the 10 years at camp. My fondest memories are of the Olympics, which were then held on the last two week of the summer. It was held over four days - two full-time days - including country meeting, opening ceremonies, country trials, Olympic events and closing ceremony. It must have been so much work for the counselors, but it was pure heaven for me, as a kid. I came back year after year to live out that wonderful experience. I remember being on the UAR - United Arab Republic, my first year. In retrospect, it was quite a diverse experience - us all accepting and learning those different cultures. All is well with me and my family. My wonderful wife, Christina and I are living in Lexington, MA in an old 1780's home just 1/2 mile from the Lexington Battle Green, where we get to re-live the Revolutionary Battle of Lexington every April 19th. : ) Christina and I had lived a number of years in Tokyo, Japan in the early 90's before we started having kids & moved up here from NYC in 1995. We have three children, Sarah - 14, Laura - 12 and Paul - 10. They are avid readers, great skiers & back-packers. In fact, we just returned from a three day hike in the White Mts. of New Hampshire. Sarah is heading off to spend 12 days hiking & canoeing in the Whites & Maine with the Appalachian Mountain Club's Teen Adventure Program next week. She went on an all-girls 7-day trip last year, and was hooked.Many reading this will also remember Cathy Breitenfeld, an FV mainstay in her own right. I recall Cathy as, among other things, a lifeguard at the waterfront.
Friday, August 3, 2007
Gold dynasty update
At left, Mike Gold with Carolyn Doris, 1983. The Gold family, then of West Orange NJ**, sent a series of Gold boys to camp in the 70s and 80s: Adam Gold, Mike Gold, Steven Gold (oldest to youngest). They always came to camp for extended periods, usually 3 sessions. Adam and Mike both were present at the September '06 reunion. In my years as camp director, I believe I spent more time talking with and seeing Linda Gold (e.g. on holdover weekends) than I spent with any other camper parent. We were all a family, and the Gold parents felt good about what we were doing for their sons. Gwen Marshall's recent alumni update included this about Mike:
MIKE GOLD (1976-1986) and his wife Jen competed on the popular Discovery Channel program "Cash Cab". Mark Gottdenker [also long-time camper and staff--worked at FV for a month as recently as last summer] was the one that spotted them on the show and alerted us. When I asked Mike about his experience he said that it went pretty well, his wife Jen really took charge and got most of the answers. "It was harder then we had anticipated. You really get put under the gun with 15 seconds to answer the question, it goes by quick. We lost on a question that asked about a sport that uses maps and compasses. The answer was orienteering. I should have known that because of my experiences at Frost Valley actually. We were only blocks from our final destination. We had to get out and walk. Oh well, we had fun anyway." The best news that Mike shared with us is that they are expecting their first baby and it is a boy that is due around November 28th.** Not to be confused with Dave Gold, who hailed from my hometown of Springfield NJ and is unrelated (though otherwise temperamentally quite similar!) to the W.O. Golds.

Above: Adam (left) and Mike (right) with me at the 9/06 reunion.
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
all the T's in 1970
Just the T names from the 1970 staff list:
Cheryl Teare - LIT
Wil Thigen - counselor (C)
John Paul Thomas - out-trip director
Paula Mary Thomas - JC
Doug Tompkins - C
Lee Tompkins - camp doctor
Caroli Thompson - C
Cindy Titsworth - LIT
Tim Tracey - LIT
Sue Trummel - LIT
Betty Jane Turner - program counselor
Tim Tracey and I roomed together in cabin 14 when he was a counselor and I a JC, two summers later. Wil Thigen, a star at camp (and quite a character), ended up in California and attended the 2001 reunion. I don't think he'd been back to camp in nearly 30 years. Lee Tompkins, a resident of Liberty, was no relation to Doug who was from Westfield or Summit NJ. Doug was later a VC (of Totem, I think) and LIT
Director. I recall Cheryl Teare as a few years later one of those counselors universally admired--talented, fun-loving, just great to have in camp. BJ Turner was the daugther of Ed and Jane Turner, who lived at FV year-round; Ed worked maintenance with Carl Hess and Jane worked in the kitchen. There were long-time friends and South Jersey neighbors of Carl and Marie Hess. The Turners were always extraordinarily kind and generous to me.
Above: Peggy Hope and Wil Thigen at the 2001 centennial reunion.
Cheryl Teare - LIT
Wil Thigen - counselor (C)
John Paul Thomas - out-trip director
Paula Mary Thomas - JC
Doug Tompkins - C
Lee Tompkins - camp doctor
Caroli Thompson - C
Cindy Titsworth - LIT
Tim Tracey - LIT
Sue Trummel - LIT
Betty Jane Turner - program counselor
Tim Tracey and I roomed together in cabin 14 when he was a counselor and I a JC, two summers later. Wil Thigen, a star at camp (and quite a character), ended up in California and attended the 2001 reunion. I don't think he'd been back to camp in nearly 30 years. Lee Tompkins, a resident of Liberty, was no relation to Doug who was from Westfield or Summit NJ. Doug was later a VC (of Totem, I think) and LIT
Director. I recall Cheryl Teare as a few years later one of those counselors universally admired--talented, fun-loving, just great to have in camp. BJ Turner was the daugther of Ed and Jane Turner, who lived at FV year-round; Ed worked maintenance with Carl Hess and Jane worked in the kitchen. There were long-time friends and South Jersey neighbors of Carl and Marie Hess. The Turners were always extraordinarily kind and generous to me.Above: Peggy Hope and Wil Thigen at the 2001 centennial reunion.
happy daughters come home
At right: Ruth Krotchko & Phyllis Gherardi, 1984Ruth Krotchko (now Ruth DiGiacomo) was a camper and counselor years ago (CIT in 1982; JC in '83; counselor in '84) and for the past few summers has sent her twin daughters, Jessica and Rebecca, to camp. This summer they spent two weeks in Tacoma. Here is Ruth's report on the beginning of the drive home immediately after the girls' time at camp was over:
So, when I picked up the girls from FV last Friday it was non-stop chatter about everything - friends, dodgeball, overnight, dining hall, cheers, Geronimo, olympix! everything. I had my two nephews along in the car, so half way down Rt 17 I pulled off to get them ice cream. We got back in the car and I was immediately engaged in their stories again, camp this and camp that. They mentioned you [she's writing this to Bill Abbott] were there when Al was telling the story about the plane crash. Next thing I realized I was coming up to the Liberty exit - I went the wrong way on the highway and went all the way back to where I got onto Rt 17!! So I had to turn around and go all the way back again... Anyway, they convinced me to agree to two sessions next summer (they pushed for three sessions but I can't afford it!). They are already pumped up for Windsong and even looking beyond that to applying to the CIT program. I hope the fever sticks... they also talk about studying abroad in high school so it seems I will have increasing challenges reeling them back home as they continue to exercise their independence.Ruth's brother John was involved at Frost Valley and her dad was for many years a member of FV's Board of Trustees and I believe served as a chaplain for the Board.
For a photo of Ruth and Phyllis at the 2006 reunion, wearing t-shirts designed for the occasion by Dari Litchman, click here.
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